The Necessity of Courtesy in Our Society

‚ÄčI really don’t understand whether financial status is directly related to the ‘courtesy’ for a nation but I fairly find that we lack in courtesy in all our behaviors and attitudes everyday. Are we so poor to thank someone, to show gratitude, to acknowledge someone’s help? 

Courtesy is grown and cultivated from our homes, schools, universities, workplaces. but we can rarely find a person who is courteous, beautiful in manner. in our everyday communications, we seem too rude to talk and to act even to those who help us being selfless. hope people will change someday. hope someday we will realize that we all have heart that loves courtesy. 

“courtesy begets courtesy”


nobody cares your opinions

you know you are definitely using facebook and nobody really cares your opinion. Nobody really cares what you think of anything that goes by you… just like you, everyone has a facebook account and they write exactly similar the way when anything triggers you.

Most important thing is, we might think our thoughts ‘would change’ the world but irony is, nothing matters. Even this post is also just an opinion and nobody will care about it.
So, see how correct I am! ūüėÄ


beauty of living in sufferings

‚Äčgoing through distresses and pains is beautiful in many ways. because, it is a state that makes people aware of what he is, what he has, who are his close to heart. being in sufferings has its inner power to grow one strong, compassionate, loving and kind. he can hope for peace and even when he suffers less, recovers from the state; it’s a happiness itself!

on the contrary, the sad part of being in ‘happiness’ is constantly being in fear of losing that seamless happy state. this fear of being on happiness makes people greedy, selfish, rude, heartless, unemphatic. he needs to hold more money, power to keep the ‘happy’ state anyway no matter what happens to other for that.¬†

craving for happiness is a fragile approach. rather living in peace can be objective. even in time deepest sufferings, one can find peace in heart. he can live solemnly, calmly when he knows peace can never be taken away by external anything. therefore, all great personalities on earth did not live a ‘happy’ life but they had done something that caused ‘happiness’ for plenty.¬†

let us not confuse the very notion of ‘happiness’ and ‘peace’ in our life to attain.

people only value achievements

people only value other people’s achievements which could be personal, social, academic, political, national but it has to be an achievement. people only love heroes, people hate losers. people who achieve are loved, valued, respected by many because ordinary people fancy their achievements.

on the contrary, people who have success are conspired to be harmed, doomed because ordinary and losers envy them. losers are not conspired. people who have nothing have no fear of losing.

Vibrations of the souls

Often I feel that every person has some power emission from themselves, like the magnetic fields do.

Meeting people gives the experience of different types of vibes. Some give the feeling of inspiration and hope, some give feeling of anxiety of everything, some gives serenity, some are just nothing, gives the feeling of indifference to everything.

There are at hundreds of vibrations around. People are different, their life philosophies are different that shapes what they say, what they run after.

Life is beautiful and the magnanimity of the beauty only depends on the eyes of us, thinking process of us. We get as the reflection of us. What we seek is seeking us.

May 23, 2016

I might have lost my ability to write

For I might have lost my ability to write. Last few weeks, I tried to scribble some words off but I failed. It happened to me so many times since I started writing on personal diaries and blogs a decade ago. But this time it is too damn hard feeling, nothing was like this before. I know probably this is another phase of a “writer’s life”. Probably I won’t try to write in future. Everything has an end; and my writings are probably in here…

Even in it, I found a deep philosophy of life. Life goes on, no matter which power rules on earth, how much technological advancement covers the lives of human races, no matter what are the achievements of people around us…

Life goes on. Time flies like we can never imagine how we almost have spent most of the times of our lives. sometimes we might now find any answer asking ourselves that what was the true achievement of this WHOLE life?

More often, it doesn’t matter what we write. not always the thoughts that are deep, the feelings that are crude can be transferred to others. to be true, there is no rule on earth. we are given free space, free will, free choice to do and pick whatever we like. I have seen that everywhere the rules are for very mean aspects, the greater is in the violations of them.

In fact, we all rush ourselves to somewhere, we desperately desire for things that weren’t and won’t be there for long. yet, we probably do not know what we go through. this is not a writing even! when so many works and tests are plied up and there is no scope to breathe out of this hard time in our present urban life in Dhaka, this is natural.

Life is too short to do anything with passion and all sincerity.
Life is fragile.

19 April, 2016

Abilities and Achievements

When I study or work much, I realize i never studied the disciplines i feel really awesome in. I am always away from things of my expertise as I often feel it. I never managed to use my maximum in my studies or in other efforts. This is not because I’m holding excuses of self failures, but it’s just because I’m ashamed of my guts and unemployment of my skills and abilities.

I believe there are thousands of others guys in our education system who are going through the same. They are living other’s choices in life, doing things without pleasure in works.

Life is full of choices, challenges that either kills us or make us heroes.

There is no absolute scale that can measure things on earth perfectly. Little we see and realize, the greater is unseen, unbelievable, unbearable for human heart and mind….